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    I was left suicidal and plotting murder after I was raped at 10, says boxer who finally has closure following his ordeal

    BOXER Callum Hancock stepped into the ring at Sheffield Arena in front of thousands of fans chanting his name and waving phone torch lights.
    Fighting as part of the undercard for Kell Brook’s 2018 clash with Michael Zerafa, it should have been the highlight of his career – but all that Callum could think about was his “dirty secret.”

    It should have been the fight of his life but Callum Hancock was preoccupied with something that happened many years beforeCredit: Alamy

    “I was looking round, thinking ‘you lot don’t have a clue,’” he says. 
    What the crowd had no idea about was that as a 10-year-old, Callum had been raped by a local bully and he’d spent the best part of two decades in a “dark” place.
    At his lowest points the scaffolder was battling suicidal thoughts and plotting to murder his perpetrator. 
    “I got to an age where I could no longer cope,” he says. “At that moment, I thought ‘I need to get this fight out of the way and get into therapy’”.

    Now 29, Callum is bravely sharing his story as part of our series, It Still Matters, to help raise awareness of the support available to sexual abuse victims, regardless of how long ago the abuse took place. 

    Callum is speaking out to help others who feel isolatedCredit: SOLO Syndication
    ‘He laughed then left me on my own’
    Callum says that his upbringing in Sheffield was filled “with love and joy and holidays”. He played outdoors, building dens and making tree swings with his brother – but was preyed on by an older neighbour.
    “He was the biggest bully boy on the estate I grew up on,” says Callum. “He was four or five years older than me and terrorised that estate for many years and made my life a misery.
    “He’d start off by taking my skateboard, taking my bike or spoiling my den, locking me in garages. Then it got heavier and heavier and he used to strip my clothes off and beat me up on a regular basis. He’d just do anything to spoil my day. 

    “And one day he rocked up and tricked me. He told me he was going to help me make a den. He went and got a hammer and nail. That’s when he sexually abused and raped me. I was 10.  
    “He smiled and laughed at me and said ‘stop crying you little faggot’. He just left me on my own.”

    Callum started boxing so that he could ‘fight back’Credit: Mirrorpix
    ‘The guilt and embarrassment set in’
    Sadly, Callum’s experiences are common. About five million – or one in six – men in the UK have been sexually abused. 
    “It was confusing,” he says of the aftermath. “When I went to secondary school, I remember fancying girls and feeling as though I was attracted to girls. But in my head I was thinking ‘I’ve been with a man, does this does this mean I’m gay?’ So I questioned my sexuality for many years. 
    “As I got a bit older, like 14, 15, 16, that’s where the guilt and the embarrassment and shame set in. It became unbearable. 
    “The main reason why I always kept my silence is I didn’t want my mum and dad to feel as if they’d missed something with me, as though they’d let me down in any way because they never have.”
    It took almost another decade before Callum felt ready to open up about his past, which had a huge impact on his mental health.
    “The world inside me was dark,” he says.
    Callum wanted revenge: to track down his perpetrator and kill him.
    “There was never a day that went by where I didn’t think about what happened,” he says. “The suicidal thoughts, the planning for murder was all so consuming.
    “I didn’t want to let anyone get close enough to know the real me. I kept everyone at arm’s length.”

    The fight that changed everything – Callum was the undercard for Kell Brook versus Michael ZerafaCredit: Alamy
    ‘I didn’t know how to cope’
    By this point, Callum was a gifted middleweight boxer – but his relationship with the sport was complicated. 
    His perpetrator had given him the nickname ‘Hitman’. 
    “When he used to beat me up and leave me on the floor, I’d wipe my tears and say ‘I’m going to get you back when I’m older’”, says Callum. 
    “And they all used to mock me. They said ‘oh it’s Hitman Hancock’. The Hitman stayed with me for many years.”
    Over time, boxing provided Callum with an outlet for the anger he felt.
    “I started boxing because I was badly bullied and then I started fighting back,” he says. “For many years, boxing was my saviour. I was releasing a lot of venom in the gym.”
    Unable to deal with his emotions, he distracted himself from the moment he woke up until he went to sleep at night. 
    “I was doing everything possible to keep my demons at bay,” he says. “Getting up at 4.30 or 5am, doing my runs, doing my circuits. Then I’d go straight to work. I’ll be scaffolding all day, then straight to the gym or boxing after work. I was getting involved in crime.
    “At night I would not get in bed until I was absolutely shattered. I was burning the candle at both ends and running myself into the ground purely because I didn’t know how to cope”.

    Sexual abuse in numbers

    669,000 adults are sexually assaulted in England and Wales every year

    1 in 5 women (8m) in the UK have been sexually abused
    1 in 6 men (5m) in the UK have been sexually abused
    1 in 20 children in the UK have been sexually abused
    Sexual abuse has been attributed to:
    15% of all suicides in the UK
    11% of all common mental health disorders in the UK
    7% of alcohol dependence disorders
    10% of drug dependence disorders
    15% of eating disorders
    17% of post-traumatic stress disorders
    (Source: Safeline)

    ‘I was no longer on my own’
    But aged 23, he exploded during a bust-up on a night out and was arrested for Grievous Bodily Harm. Shortly before he was handed a six-month prison sentence, his parents demanded to know what was causing his bad behaviour.
    “It took me ages to tell them,” he explains. “I was sat in our living room and I just froze. I eventually broke my silence. It was hard for my dad to handle. My mum just screamed the house down, saying ‘no no no’ and cried her eyes out. 
    “She came over to me and gave me a hug and said ‘it’s going to be alright from here on in. You’ve just taken the biggest step of your life’ and from there, slowly but surely, things did get better. 
    “I was no longer on my own and no longer consumed with my thoughts and my feelings. I accessed support and life was lifted.”
    The following year, Callum was out shopping for his mum’s birthday present when something extraordinary happened.
    “I bumped into my perpetrator,” he says. “I went to buy a gift bag to put my mum’s perfume in. I walked into the local shop and he was there, with his partner and two little girls. 
    “My heart missed a beat, I fell sick, I felt numb. That night I ended up sitting the perpetrator down at his house,” he says. 
    Callum hoped his perpetrator would admit what he had done but instead he claimed he only remembered parts. 
    It left Callum furious and once again desperate for revenge. He faced a choice of whether to take the law into his own hands or take a more positive route; he contacted the police.  
    The perpetrator – Jason Lyttle –  pleaded guilty to buggery and two counts of indecent assault. He was sentenced to six and a half years in prison.

    Jason Lyttle was imprisoned for his crimesCredit: Derbyshire Constabulary
    ‘I felt like an alien’
    Did the guilty verdict and seeing his abuser behind bars bring him closure?
    “If I’m being honest it didn’t,” he says. “It brought me short-term satisfaction, but it didn’t bring me closure. Support brought me closure, therapy brought me closure. Living my life, no longer focusing on the past brought me closure.”
    Callum was helped by The Safe Room – a support group run by Survivors Manchester.
    “The room is filled with other men who have been sexually assaulted, exploited and raped,” he says. “We’ll sit in that room, with facilitators, until we’re ready to leave. We can relate on so many levels. We can discuss things we don’t feel we can with anyone else. It’s a place of belonging and it’s been a lifesaver.”
    He says that men opening up about their emotions has come a long way since “the dinosaur ages” but there’s still a way to go.
    “It’s been conditioned in us to not cry,” he explains. “People will say ‘stop being a little girl, what are you crying for?’. I can now quite easily cry if it gets too much. I won’t feel embarrassed and I won’t feel ashamed.”
    After the promise he made himself at Sheffield arena in 2018, Callum decided to stop boxing. “I was neglecting myself,” he says. “So I pressed pause on boxing and am now concentrating on number one.”
    Today, he is training to be a life coach so that he can help others to feel less isolated. 
    “I know what it’s like to suffer in silence,” says Callum. “I know what it is like to feel alone, to be riddled with guilt and all that shame.

    “For a lifetime, I felt like an alien. I felt on my own. In actual fact I have never been alone. There are all these amazing people in these organisations, it’s just knowing where to access them.
    “I don’t forgive him – but I forgive myself.
    “I want others to know that they’re not alone, there are people who love them and places that would love to support them.”

    WHERE TO GET HELP

    Whenever it happened to you, it’s never too late to get support.

    If you’ve ever experienced sexual violence or sexual abuse, you can get confidential support from specialists who will listen to you, believe you and understand how hard it is to talk about.
    As a victim, you’re entitled to support whether you report the crime or not. Your rights are set out in full in the Victims’ Code. 
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    With Gareth Bale struggling on his Tottenham return, which comebacks were a success and which were flops?

    THEY say never go back… and that may be how Gareth Bale is feeling right now.
    The Real Madrid star returned to Tottenham after seven years away at the beginning of the season in a loan deal, but has so far failed to impress boss Jose Mourinho.

    Gareth Bale has flopped so far on his return to TottenhamCredit: Kevin Quigley-The Daily Mail

    The Special One even threatened to send the Welsh legend back to the Spanish giants, after a disappointing showing in training.
    In his Spurs hey-day, Bale notched 56 goals and 58 assists in over 200 appearances before his £85million exit in 2013.
    But, with a dodgy injury record and a poor relationship with Zinedine Zidane leading to plenty of time spent on the sidelines in Spain, there were already plenty of doubts when he returned.
    Here, SunSport details four comeback kids Bale can look to for inspiration to turn things around – and three he dare not emulate.

    THIERRY HENRY

    Thierry Henry proved his legendary status in North London with his cameo return – as if he needed toCredit: Getty – Contributor
    Arguably no player has had as big an impact at one club during the Premier League era as Thierry Henry at Arsenal.
    Few could blame the Frenchman for trying his luck with Barcelona after eight years in North London – especially as he went on to win the treble.
    Eventually heading to North America, Henry found himself at a loose end in January 2012 and fancied a trip to see some old friends.
    A two-month loan deal was sorted and he reminded Gooners why he was so adored with a winning goal on his debut, against Leeds in the FA Cup.

    Henry played seven games during his second spell and left on a high, bagging a stoppage-time winner in his final appearance.
    MARIO GOTZE

    Injuries and a mystery illness got in the way of Mario Gotze’s Borussia Dortmund comebackCredit: Getty – Contributor
    Mario Gotze, like most top German players, signed for Bayern Munich while at the peak of his powers.
    The manner of the 2013 switch irked Borussia Dortmund but the player, who was briefly Germany’s all-time record transfer, actually struggled in Bavaria.
    Three years later, he returned and admitted: “I can look at [the move] now through different eyes. I can easily understand that many fans could not understand my decision. I would not make that decision now.”
    Far from the fairytale return, Gotze managed just 16 games for Borussia the following season.
    Things barely improved and the World Cup winner was released this summer.
    DIDIER DROGBA

    Didier Drogba popped back to Stamford Bridge for a fourth Premier League medal in 2014/15Credit: EPA
    Returning legends can make as big an impact off the pitch as on it, as Didier Drogba showed.
    The Ivorian was far from his prime when pitching up at Chelsea for a second spell in 2014.
    Time in China and Turkey had drained more than a yard of pace from the striker, aged 36 as he rejoined.
    Yet he embodied the Blues’ return to normalcy, coinciding with Mourinho’s second term as manager to bag a Premier League title.
    A talisman around the entirety of the club, Drogba even helped out with vital goals against Spurs, Manchester United and Leicester en route to his fourth league crown.
    KAKA

    Brazilian playmaker Kaka’s decline was confirmed with a middling return to MilanCredit: AFP
    If any player’s return was set up like Bale’s, it is the story of Kaka.
    Departing AC Milan in 2009 as one of the world’s best players, the Brazilian became a classic Galactico signing for Real Madrid.
    Like Bale, he had his moments in Spain but ultimately struggled to shake off injuries and titles were often evasive.
    Upon departing Real, Kaka was compelled to relive his Milan glory days and signed a free transfer in 2013.
    Tearing his hamstring in his first game, he bounced back to score a reasonable seven goals at the San Siro as the Rossoneri drifted to a disappointing eighth-placed finish.
    DIRK KUYT

    Dirk Kuyt scored a famous hat-trick as he waved goodbye to FeyenoordCredit: Rex Features
    Returning to your old team can often be a bit of an anticlimax… but not for Dirk Kuyt.
    The underrated Dutchman headed back to Feyenoord in 2015 on the hunt for one last heroic moment to cap his career.
    It finally arrived in his last game for the club, Kuyt bagging a final day hat-trick to seal Feyenoord’s first Eredivisie title in 18 years – which the captain lifted himself.
    In fact, he isn’t the only Premier League favourite with a fantastic Feyenoord return under their belts.
    Robin van Persie returned to Rotterdam for his final 18 months as a professional, scoring 25 times and lifting the KNVB Cup.
    JOE COLE

    Joe Cole could not recover his best form after almost a decade away from West HamCredit: Times Newspapers Ltd
    West Ham fans must be yearning for the sort of talents that used to pass through the club, before they were sold on.
    Rio Ferdinand, Frank Lampard and Joe Cole all left for success elsewhere – but one did come back.
    A home league debut equaliser against QPR provided hope of things to come but Cole was not the midfield maestro who had terrified defences for Chelsea in years gone by.
    In an 18-month stay at Upton Park, Cole failed to establish himself in the team.
    The Hammers beat relegation in 2013/14 after a strong second half of the campaign, although the ex-England ace rarely featured when they won.
    MARK HUGHES

    Mark Hughes (left) was a vital component of Sir Alex Ferguson’s early success at Old TraffordCredit: Getty – Contributor
    British players heading abroad tend to produce mixed results, as Mark Hughes can attest.
    Sparky’s trip to Spain was far less fruitful than Bale’s would prove to be, spending just a season with Barcelona before being loaned to Bayern Munich.

    New Manchester United boss Sir Alex Ferguson wanted the striker back in England and handed over £1.8m to sign him, £200,000 less than Barcelona had paid the Red Devils two years previous.
    Hughes quickly became a staple as Fergie began to build his first imperious side.
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    Brighton signing Moises Caicedo was a hot property in South America, but the ex-Man Utd target will need time to settle

    New Brighton signing Moises Caicedo is one of those few people who can look back on 2020 with immense pleasure.
    At the start of the year the teenage Ecuadorian was not yet a first choice player with his club, Independiente del Valle.

    Hot prospect Moises Caicedo has signed for Brighton for a bargain £4millionCredit: AFP – Getty

    Box to box midfielder Caicedo is one of the most promising players to come out of South America in recent yearsCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    By the end he was a full international, fighting and winning midfield battles against the likes of Uruguay and Colombia in World Cup qualification.
    He was seen as one of the hottest properties in South American football.  It is a fair bet that if he were Brazilian the transfer fee might have been considerably higher than the reported £4 million.
    Caicedo hurdled every obstacle in style last year. He looked instantly at home first in domestic football, then in South America’s Champions League and then as a senior international.
    He had thought of himself as primarily a defensive midfielder, a specialist in breaking up attacks in the mould of Chelsea’s N’Golo Kante.

    It soon became clear to himself and everyone else that he could do much more, that he had the engine, the ability and the calm to run the game from box to box.
    He has been well taught. For a decade and a half, little Independiente del Valle have been specialising in youth development.
    They have excellent facilities and bring over highly regarded youth coaches from Spain, while Caicedo has proved an excellent student.
    Moises Caicedo the footballer has shown that he is ready for the challenge ahead. The question now is whether Moises Caicedo the human being is ready.

    Lionel Messi is closed down by the energetic Caicedo in a World Cup qualifierCredit: AFP – Getty

    Caicedo showed in games against Uruguay and Argentina he was the real dealCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    At 19, Caicedo should have a big future ahead of himCredit: Getty Images – Getty
    The European market is no longer particularly interested in players based in South America who are in their mid 20s. They want them young. The price is cheaper, and, it is thought, the adaptation process is easier.
    That may be true on the pitch. There are clear advantages in working with the player as soon as possible, getting him used to a quicker style of play where he has to take rapid decisions.
    The problems are more likely to come off the field. A 19 year old footballer, like Caicedo, may well be young for his age – shielded from some of the usual adolescent rites of passage by a total focus on football.
    There are obvious risks in plucking someone of this age away from his native culture and language. The young player can easily feel lost and disorientated.
    The good news in this case is that, according to Graham Potter, Brighton have resisted the temptation of sending Caicedo out on loan.
    This seems attractive on paper; there is the chance of regular first team football. But there are huge pitfalls.
    Being loaned to club with no long term stake in the player’s development can be an awful experience, especially for South American players.
    They want to feel special. They have often come up the ranks being made to feel special. All too easily they can feel the cold of an unwelcoming dressing room filled by players with whom they cannot communicate.

    Caicedo will need time to settle in his new surroundings in England

    Brighton manager Graham Potter has said Caicedo won’t be sent on loan and will be helped to adapt to his new environmentCredit: PA:Press Association

    Many a career has lost momentum as a consequence. And momentum was one of the best things about Moises Caicedo in 2020.
    It is pleasing to hear, then, that Potter has identified the priority.
    “He’ll stay with us,” said the Brighton boss, “and we’ll help him settle in. The main thing is for him to adapt to his new surroundings” – and then start showing for Brighton what he was doing last year for club and country.

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    Arsenal wonderkid Joel Lopez was signed from Barcelona, is tipped to be next Bellerin and is training with first team

    FORMER Barcelona prodigy Joel Lopez is making great strides at Arsenal.
    The 18-year-old is continuing his rapid rise through the Gunners’ ranks by training with Mikel Arteta’s first team.

    Joel Lopez is climbing through the ranks at Arsenal since signing in 2019Credit: Getty – Contributor

    Lopez was plucked from Barcelona by the GunnersCredit: Getty – Contributor

    Most recently, Lopez has been training with Mikel Arteta’s first teamCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    His rapid pace and ability to recover quickly have led to comparisons to fellow countryman Hector Bellerin, who followed the same path from the Nou Camp to North London.
    Currently starring for Arsenal’s U23 team in the Premier League 2, Lopez is being hotly tipped by coaches at the Hale End academy to make the graduation to the first team.
    FOLLOWING BELLERIN’S FOOTSTEPS
    Like Cesc Fabregas and Bellerin, who went from the youth team to the first team with the Premier League giants, Lopez was plucked from Barcelona’s famed La Masia academy.
    The Catalans were desperate to keep the promising talent on their books, and offered him a deal in 2018

    Liverpool were said to be monitoring the situation, aware that an opportunity might arise to prise the prodigy away from the LaLiga champions.
    Instead it was Arsenal who swooped first, acquiring Lopez on a scholarship deal, before signing a professional contract when he turned 17 in 2019.
    The deal was rubber-stamped by former Arsenal head of relations Raul Sanlleh, who reportedly swayed his fellow countryman in furthering his football education at North London.
    And since then, Lopez has gone from strength-to-strength for the Gunners’ youth sides, and has proved to be a key member of Per Mertesacker’s academy set-up.

    In Arsenal’s U23 side Lopez has been a standoutCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    When Lopez turned 17 he signed a professional contract with the Gunners

    Lopez is a left-back who loves to get forward and support the attackCredit: Getty – Contributor

    Since joining Arsenal last year, Lopez has become integral to Per Mertesacker’s academy set-upCredit: Getty – Contributor
    JORDI ALBA 2.0
    Predominantly a left-back in the mould of Jordi Alba, Lopez loves to get forward and support the attack.
    “Joel is a left back with a lot of future,” Barcelona reporter Albert Rogé told football.london last year.
    “He loves to get forward and attack the penalty area. He combines very well with those inside him and has a good touch of the ball.
    “In defence he is intense and his speed helps him to correct his position when he makes a few mistakes.
    “He is a player that coaches always like. Very discreet on and off the pitch and always good.”
    BARCA TRIED TO KEEP HIM
    Lopez reportedly left Barcelona because the club are pinning their hopes on Juan Miranda, who plays in his position and is two-years his senior.
    “They tried to keep him because they do not want any player to leave,” Rogé revealed.

    Lopez poses with Lionel Messi during his Barcelona days

    Defender Lopez regularly features for Spain’s Under-17 side

    Like Hector Bellerin before him, Lopez will be hopeful of getting an opportunity to shine in the Arsenal first teamCredit: Getty – Contributor

    “However, they were aware that they had opted for Miranda so it was difficult to retain Joel for sporting reasons.”
    Barcelona loss could be Arsenal’s gain, with Spain Under-17 international Lopez clearly impressing the coaching staff to warrant inclusion in Unai Emery’s Europa League squad in 2019, despite failing to feature as the Gunners topped Group F.
    And like Fabregas and Bellerin before him, you wouldn’t bank against another Barcelona starlet wowing fans in North London.

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    Tyson Fury’s wife Paris is a supermum, staying glamourous and in shape as she raises five kids, with sixth on the way

    SHE is one half of the most likeable couple in Britain, and she just happens to be the wife of heavyweight champion, Tyson Fury.
    Paris Fury, 31, stole the show from her more famous husband in the ITV documentary Tyson Fury: The Gypsy King that gave us a candid look at their family life last year

    Glam Paris Fury is expecting her sixth childCredit: Instagram @gypsyking101

    The boxing Wag enjoys living a luxury lifestyleCredit: Instagram

    Behind the showbiz razzmatazz Paris is a supermum of fiveCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    Her unique and glam lifestyle, including a penchant for £30,000 designer handbags saw her became a panelist on Loose Women, where she’s discussed her riches and fame, as well as his mental health issues.
    But behind the showbiz razzmatazz is a supermum of five children, now expecting her sixth, who supported Tyson through drug abuse and held the family together.
    Last summer, Paris even joined Tyson in providing an alternative and hilarious Joe Wicks-style live workout during lockdown, in which their bickering endeared them to the nation further.
    They received a Heroes of Humanity award for diligently working out every day with their followers.

    CHILDHOOD SWEETHEARTS
    Paris met Fury when she was just 15 at a mutual friend’s wedding.
    However, it wasn’t until a year later, when their paths crossed again on a night out in Doncaster for her 16th birthday, that they began dating.
    Paris explained: “He was my first boyfriend as I was not allowed a boyfriend until the age of 16. He is the only boyfriend I have had.
    “Tyson would train in boxing during the week and then come and see me at the weekend. I would always be so excited at the thought of seeing him.”

    In 2008, they tired the knot in front of 400 guests and slept together for the first time on the night of their wedding.

    Tyson Fury met Paris when she was 15Credit: Refer to Caption

    They soon married in 2008Credit: Instagram @parisfury1

    Paris Fury remained celibate until the night of her weddingCredit: Instagram @parisfury1
    “Even after we got engaged, Tyson would sleep in a caravan in the yard of my parents’ home, while I slept inside the house,” she once revealed.
    “We didn’t sleep together until after we got married. That is the traveller’s way.”
    A SELF-CONFESSED TRAVELLER
    Like Tyson, Paris is proud of her traveller roots.
    The bubbly blonde was born and raised in Doncaster, spending her existence sleeping in caravans.
    She said: “I am a Traveller, I am a gypsy. I was brought up in caravans when I was a little girl.
    “It’s just the traditional lifestyle; there’s no real definition, there’s no bloodline because we never went to the doctor to say we are who we are.
    “There was no paperwork, there are still gypsies today who can’t read or write; we’re just that old fashioned.”

    A self-confessed traveller, Paris Fury is proud of her rootsCredit: Instagram

    ITV show Loose Women introduced Paris Fury as a regular panelist last yearCredit: Rex Features
    PROUD MAMA
    Today, Paris and her hubby live in a modest £550,000 home in Morecambe, despite his reported £70m wealth.
    There, she cares for her brood – their five children, Venezuela, Prince John James, Prince Tyson Fury II, Valencia Amber, and Prince Adonis Amaziah.
    But she had a row with Tyson that was filmed by cameras for the ITV doc about their education.
    Paris said she wanted her children to be raised like she was and leave school at 11, while Fury described people who don’t send their kids to school as “dream killers”.
    “Do you think you live a traveller’s lifestyle? Because I don’t. I think you live like a footballers’ wife,” he then barked at her.

    Paris Fury already has five children with TysonCredit: parisfury1/Instagram

    Family means everything to Paris, who believes her children should grow up like she didCredit: Instagram

    However, Tyson Fury accused his wife of living like a footballers’ WagCredit: Instagram / @parisfury1
    SHE WAS THE GLUE
    In 2016, Fury’s mental health issues, cocaine and alcohol abuse, and intolerable mood swings threatened their seemingly unbreakable marriage.
    On occasion, Paris would even contemplate leaving – packing her bags and getting into her car.
    However, she’d just stop herself – admitting she couldn’t leave Tyson to “crash and burn”.
    “I wanted to leave every day. Every day I used to cry and break down and think ‘I can’t deal with this’,” she revealed.
    “I literally packed the car and the kids a few times.

    When Tyson Fury suffered with mental issues and was abusing alcohol and rugs, Paris admitted she contemplated leaving himCredit: Reuters

    Love won the day though, with Paris saying she couldn’t see Tyson Fury ‘crash and burn’Credit: Getty Images – Getty
    “I’d think ‘how can I leave?’. If you truly love someone you’re not going to leave them to crash and burn.”
    Paris stood by her man as he battled his demons, before he rose again like a phoenix from the flames.
    JET-SET LIFE
    With regular holidays in Marbella in their luxury mansion believed to worth around £6million, the Furys know how to live.
    Paris and the kids also frequently fly to glam destinations like Los Angeles and Las Vegas to accompany Tyson to his fights.
    The whole family make the most of the trips abroad, squeezing in everything from shopping sprees on notoriously posh shopping hotspot Rodeo Drive to days out at Disney World.
    And Paris just loves her designer clobber.

    Pampered Paris Fury loves shopping and has a particular soft spot for ChanelCredit: Instagram

    Glam Paris Fury is living her best lifeCredit: Instagram

    Paris owns SEVEN of these stylish Chanel 2.55 bags, worth £4,362 eachCredit: Instagram

    Holidays in amazing destinations are important to the FurysCredit: Refer to Caption

    Paris Fury believes she won’t be changed by having lots of moneyCredit: Instagram
    The fashionable mum has a particular soft spot for Chanel, flashing a pair of stylish gold metallic trainers, £750, on Instagram.
    She has previously dazzled followers with a £180 Moschino belt and Fendi Mama Baguette bag, worth £1,850.
    But despite loving expensive threads, Paris loves a good deal too – getting bits for the home from discount stores like Home Bargains to remain grounded.
    “We already have X amount in the bank. It’s a funny one, but getting any more isn’t going to change us,” she said.
    FITNESS QUEEN
    Move over, Joe Wicks.
    While The Body Coach might have been the nation’s male PE teacher, the alternative female voice was Paris Fury – who gave a more realistic spin to her workouts.
    She teamed up with Tyson to provide us with an Instagram live fitness class at 9am six days a week last summer.

    Last summer Paris and Tyson Fury launched their own lockdown workoutCredit: Mark Robinson – The Sun

    Paris wasn’t afraid to push Tyson into working out harder

    Fury walked out of one live workout when he couldnt’ keep up with ParisCredit: Instagram

    And again, she took the limelight away from her hubby – who once stormed out of a session and was branded an “a**hole” by his fierce wife for not keeping up with her.
    They were given a Heroes of Humanity award by the WBC in recognition of their efforts.
    Despite standing at 5ft 7inches to Fury’s 6ft 9inches, Paris clearly wears the trousers in their relationship.

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    Zinedine Zidane’s successor at Real Madrid could be South American coach Marcelo Gallardo, nicknamed ‘Napoleon’

    MIGHT the successor to Zinedine Zidane at Real Madrid come straight out of South America?
    It is a possibility that is being taken seriously in Argentina, where there is speculation that Marcelo Gallardo might be seen as the man to take charge of the Spanish giants.

    River Plate coach Marcelo Gallardo is being touted as a future Real Madrid managerCredit: Reuters

    It comes amid speculation Zizou could be off at the end of the season.
    Gallardo turned 45 last week. He has spent the last six and a half of those years in Buenos Aires with River Plate.
    These days in European football it is very hard to find coaches who have spent a similar amount of time with the same club.
    In South America it is barely believable. Two years is typically considered a marathon stint.

    To stay at the helm of a big club for almost seven years and counting is an extraordinary achievement – proof that, in an ever changing environment where players are always being sold, the coach has managed to keep his team competitive.
    And in the case of Gallardo, he has kept River Plate both competitive and attractive. The players have changed, the tactical systems have changed – Gallardo has a number of different formations up his sleeve – but the overall approach has been a constant.
    His team are possession based, moving the ball well and looking to pass their way through the opposing defence.
    It is his ability to handle change that, it is argued, makes him so attractive to Real Madrid.

    In his time with the club Zidane has displayed an undoubted talent for working with top stars.

    Gallardo has built an attractive and competitive River Plate team in his six and a half years with the clubCredit: Getty – Contributor

    Master tactician Gallardo has even earned the nickname ‘Napoleon’ because of his strategic knowledgeCredit: AP:Associated Press
    The doubts are whether he is good at dealing with the transitions, of rebuilding the side and getting the best out of the club’s collection of highly promising youngsters.
    It helps that Gallardo has European experience as a player. An attacking midfielder good enough to win over 40 caps for Argentina, he enjoyed a fine spell with Monaco, where he won the French league, and had a season with Paris Saint Germain.
    Apart from River Plate, his only coaching experience came with a year in Uruguay in charge of Nacional, the club where he ended his playing days. 
    This would make him something of a gamble for Real Madrid. But he is no pushover.
    Gallardo’s baby faced looks won him the nickname of ‘the doll’ when he first started playing. Since then, though, he has picked up another nickname – Napoleon, a tribute to his talent for strategy.

    Gallardo experienced playing in Europe with MonacoCredit: Reuters

    A job managing a European giant could be in Gallardo’s near futureCredit: Getty – Pool

    If Real Madrid is seen as too big a step, then the modern day Napoleon might well feel at home in France.
    With Andres Villas-Boas under pressure at Marseille, taking over there could be another possibility.
    Whatever the route taken by Marcelo Gallardo, Napoleon’s second conquest of Europe is surely being plotted in Argentina. More

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    Man Utd star Axel Tuanzebe’s amazing journey, from arriving from Congo aged 4 to captaining Red Devils at every level

    THE story of how Manchester United star Axel Tuanzebe achieved his dream to play for the Premier League giants is truly inspiring.
    When he was just four, his parents left Congo for the UK in search of a better life for their family.

    Axel Tuanzebe’s remarkable rise is a story of courage and determinationCredit: Rex Features

    They settled in Rochdale, where a young Axel was unable to speak a word of English.
    However, the ambitious youngster was determined to make something of his life and support his family.
    He pushed himself through school, but his dream was to become a professional footballer – ever since he joined United’s Academy at the tender age of eight.
    Last October against PSG in the Champions League, Tuanzebe, now 23, produced a coming-of-age performance and kept Kylian Mbappe at bay.

    He is a man on a mission to succeed at Old Trafford.
    EARLY LIFE
    Tuanzebe was born in Bunia in the Democratic Republic of Congo, but moved to England when his parents emigrated to the north.
    Football became his passion. Soon he was scouted by Manchester United and joined their youth set-up – just four years after arriving on our shores.
    Despite rising through the ranks at youth level, education was still very important to Tuanzebe, who understood he couldn’t just rely on his football.

    He attended St Cuthbert’s RC High School, where he captained the Year 7 football team to the final of the English National Schools Cup at Stamford Bridge in 2009

    Tuanzebe joined the Manchester United academy aged 8 after arriving from Congo four years earlierCredit: Instagram
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    That achievement earned the boy acknowledgement from the Mayor of Rochdale, who honoured him with a Sports Boy of the Year award.
    Tuanzebe was reportedly a model student and when it came to his exams, he passed his GCSE’s with flying colours with A grades.
    But his academic pursuits would take a back seat as his football took centre stage.
    A REAL LEADER
    In 2019, Tuanzebe achieved a remarkable feat.
    When he stepped out for United against Rochdale in a League Cup victory over Rochdale, he was wearing the captain’s armband – ahead of more experienced stars including Paul Pogba, Sergio Romero, Phil Jones and Jesse Lingard.
    Not only did he become the youngest player to captain the side since Norman Whiteside in 1985, aged 21.
    He also capped off a wonderful run of captaining Manchester United at EVERY single age level he’s played at.

    In 2019 Tuanzebe led his Manchester United team mates out as captain in a League Cup tie against RochdaleCredit: Getty – Contributor

    Incredibly, Tuanzebe has captained Man Utd at every level he has played atCredit: AFP or licensors
    “Axel is a captain in the making, he’s a leader – why not give to young kids,” boss Ole Gunnar Solskjaer later revealed to TalkSport after the game.
    “We know we can give it to Sergio and we can give it to Paul, that’s no problem and they’ve been captains before.
    “But it was Axel today and how does he handle it? He was absolutely fine, he enjoyed it.
    “It’s just a way of telling him that we trust him.”
    COMING OF AGE
    After breaking into the United first team, making his debut against Wigan in a 4-0 FA Cup victory in 2017, he started his first senior match in a 2-0 defeat to Arsenal four months later.
    But with chances limited, Tuanzebe was sent on loan to Aston Villa, where he became a promotion hero in 2019.
    He returned to Old Trafford – expected to push for a first team spot. A series of niggling injuries put pay to a limited run in the team, and he played just ten times in all competitions in 2019-20.

    Tuanzebe was a promotion hero for Dean Smiths Aston VillaCredit: News Group Newspapers Ltd

    Tuanzebe enjoyed a coming of age performance against PSG and didn’t give Kylian Mbappe an inchCredit: AFP or licensors
    However, it was on the biggest stage where he proved his undeniable quality.
    Faced with superstars Kylian Mbappe and Neymar, Tuanzebe put on his best display in a Manchester United shirt – as the Red Devils shocked PSG to win 2-1 in a Champions League game.
    After the match, Solskjaer said: “We know that when you go away against a team like this, against players like Neymar and Mbappe, top, top players in the world, we know we have to defend well.
    “We know David De Gea will have to make a few saves. Sometimes you’ll get in a foot race with Mbappe and you’ll have to run with him and we know Axel’s qualities – he’s a top defender.
    “First game in, I don’t know, 10 months or something, which is just testament to the quality he has.”
    HUNGRY FOR SUCCESS
    Being a gifted footballer isn’t Tuanzebe’s only claim to fame. After all, he features in the Guinness Book of World Records.
    In 2018 he joined his Manchester United team-mates on a pre-season tour in Los Angeles.
    There he was asked to take part in a game of Hungry Hippos for fun.

    Tuanzebe is not just a upcoming footballing star, but also holds a Guinness World Record in Hungry Hippos gameCredit: Instagram @roshaunwilliams

    The Hungry Hippos game is a favourite pastime for many young children, where players have to swallow as many marbles as possible using their hippoCredit: Amazon
    He finished it in just 17.37 seconds – managing to record a world record at the same time.
    For those who missed out on the famous game as a child, it features four hippos in a circle with a handful of balls in the middle.
    Players each choose a hippo and need to use it to collect as many marbles as possible before they are all taken.
    ENGLAND STAR IN THE MAKING
    Although Tuanzebe is still eligible to play for Congo, it appears likely that he will choose to represent England.
    He began his international career in 2017, starring for the Three Lions U17 side against Mexico.
    That same year, Tuanzebe was a part of the U20 side that won all three matches at the Four Nations tournament.

    Tuanzebe is an England youth international, but could still turn out for the country of his birth, DR CongoCredit: Rex Features

    Now 23, Tuanzebe is ready to push for a place in United’s first teamCredit: Getty Images – Getty

    In 2017, his rapid ascension at international level continued when he was capped by the U21 side against Ukraine.
    Gareth Southgate has been monitoring Tuanzebe closely, and should he get a sustained run in the United side he might just partner his United team mate Harry Maguire at the heart of England’s defence.
    That would be the icing on the cake for his astonishing rise.

    Cavani is deep in conversation with Tuanzebe before Man Utd’s win over PSG as fans joke he leaked inside information More